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<lastBuildDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 05:41:00 GMT</lastBuildDate><image><title>Marriage Chronicles Connection blog/news comments</title><url><![CDATA[http://spruz.websnapr.com?size=S&url=http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com]]></url><link>http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com</link></image><item><title><![CDATA[What's on your mind?]]></title><description><![CDATA[All-Been so busy writing the book.  We will get this website more active and interactive soon!  Thanks for visiting!  MORE TO COME at the end of the year!]]></description><link><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/Default.asp?a=&nid=4689DED9-58FE-4C3C-A8FD-18655EC86BE6&ptitle=INSECURE-BEHAVIORS! ]]></link><pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 05:41:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true"><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/Default.asp?a=&nid=4689DED9-58FE-4C3C-A8FD-18655EC86BE6&ptitle=INSECURE-BEHAVIORS! ]]></guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[RE:The OTHER Woman/Man]]></title><description><![CDATA[I've never been married so let me put the single person's swing on this. I have been the other woman before. Not a cool venture but it happened. And in defense of other singles, we don't really know that that is what's going on! My situation was the "wifey" (they weren't married) was living out of town... and doing her own thing. How did I know? She turned up 2 months pregnant and hadn't seen him in 4 months. Follow me now... we did not start off trying to get the hook up. We were friends. He never mentioned he had a girlfriend and denied it when I asked him in the beginning. We were together everyday just hanging out. We fell for each other. We ended up being best friends and lovers. He told me about her when he told me he loved me. Tried to cut it off but the hearts wouldn't let it go. Even on Valentine's day he was with her but while he was gone he sent me 2 dozen roses, balloons, and called every hour. He came back in time to pick me up from work and take me to dinner. I asked him why...why even go through the motions or was I just a toy. He told me that I had his heart and he couldn't be without me but she had the ability to destroy him. That was my first and last time being the other woman. No it's not right either way on either side either way because the pain that comes from it lasts much longer than either relationship.]]></description><link><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/Default.asp?display=5DFF3475-8AED-4D3D-B08C-7E18AAA0CE8B&nid=A4BB64E4-5E84-4298-AEF9-40300D320293 ]]></link><pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2009 03:26:17 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true"><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/Default.asp?display=5DFF3475-8AED-4D3D-B08C-7E18AAA0CE8B&nid=A4BB64E4-5E84-4298-AEF9-40300D320293 ]]></guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[RE:SINGLES-Would you stay with no commitment?]]></title><description><![CDATA["Convenience" is a word I hear often.  I have a friend that has been with her man for many years (Six + years) and he has blatently told her that he has no intention of marrying and has no desire to have children.  Here is a beautiful woman who has not yet experienced having a child and desires to do so.  Yet she is willing to put that desire behind his wishes to stay in this relationship.  Now that years have gone by and her ability to conceive gets lower and lower, I have to wonder if she will look back at this situation, if she is still in it, and wonder if the sacrafice has been worth it.  However, you do see couples like Goldie Hawn and Kirk Russell who have been together decades, have raised children together and never marry.]]></description><link><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/Default.asp?display=5DFF3475-8AED-4D3D-B08C-7E18AAA0CE8B&nid=4C4FD9C3-722F-434E-A779-8BF294705961 ]]></link><pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2009 00:07:46 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true"><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/Default.asp?display=5DFF3475-8AED-4D3D-B08C-7E18AAA0CE8B&nid=4C4FD9C3-722F-434E-A779-8BF294705961 ]]></guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[RE:SINGLES-Would you stay with no commitment?]]></title><description><![CDATA[I can't say that I've never done it. the situation was a little different. I was his sugar momma to be honest. At one point I got tired of waiting and we broke up for a spell...in the time apart he experienced some great drama and we got back together. However, after a while I got the feeling he was trying to wait for the next best woman. Unfortunately for him, she has yet to arrive. We are best friends now... wild thing is a few months ago he sent me an email asking me to marry him. The answer was a big "N" little "o". I think that in these situations women stay in it for convenience... or fear of getting back in the game. You're just used to it... you're not happy... it's just a habit. At least that was my excuse, because at some point the fact that love never really had anything to do with it quietly sneaks in and takes a rest.]]></description><link><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/Default.asp?display=5DFF3475-8AED-4D3D-B08C-7E18AAA0CE8B&nid=4C4FD9C3-722F-434E-A779-8BF294705961&ptitle=SINGLES-Would-you-stay-with-no-commitment? ]]></link><pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2009 02:53:27 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true"><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/Default.asp?display=5DFF3475-8AED-4D3D-B08C-7E18AAA0CE8B&nid=4C4FD9C3-722F-434E-A779-8BF294705961&ptitle=SINGLES-Would-you-stay-with-no-commitment? ]]></guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[RE:The OTHER Woman/Man]]></title><description><![CDATA[If I had to choose one, I would have to choose emotional infidelity to be the more severe of the two.  We've heard the stories a millions times of all the physical affairs in which to satisfy a physical desire.  This is why the Swinger lifestyle has become so popular- all the physical desires without the emotional attachments.  However, physical can lead to emotional, particularly with women.  If one were to have an affair that was "purely physical", it is less complicated than for one to have an affair where the parties have "fallen in love" or have "found their soulmate".  How do you get over that?  Infidelity is already hard to get over in a marriage, but if your spouse loved another, how do you move on in your marriage wondering if they still long for that love? ]]></description><link><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/Default.asp?display=5DFF3475-8AED-4D3D-B08C-7E18AAA0CE8B&nid=A4BB64E4-5E84-4298-AEF9-40300D320293 ]]></link><pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 05:02:49 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true"><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/Default.asp?display=5DFF3475-8AED-4D3D-B08C-7E18AAA0CE8B&nid=A4BB64E4-5E84-4298-AEF9-40300D320293 ]]></guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[RE:The OTHER Woman/Man]]></title><description><![CDATA[which is worse...a PHYSICAL or EMOTIONAL infidelity? hmmm...i think they can both be extremely hurtful and devastating to a marriage, but for me an emotional infidelity would be worse. i would hate for my husband to love or be in love with someone other than me. within the first 6 months of our marriage we endured TONS of problems that were unexpected (he had multiple surgeries and was out of work for 2 months, my grandmother died during that time, his mother seriously injured herself and also had a brain tumor removed, and the list goes on). we put those vows to the test in the literal sense, and for him to share intimate feelings with someone else after what we've been through would probably send me over the edge. i would be totally upset if he shared his body with somebody else, but i just feel really strongly about sharing his heart/mind/spirit with anyone else as well.]]></description><link><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/Default.asp?display=5DFF3475-8AED-4D3D-B08C-7E18AAA0CE8B&nid=A4BB64E4-5E84-4298-AEF9-40300D320293&new_log=yes ]]></link><pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 02:25:27 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true"><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/Default.asp?display=5DFF3475-8AED-4D3D-B08C-7E18AAA0CE8B&nid=A4BB64E4-5E84-4298-AEF9-40300D320293&new_log=yes ]]></guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[RE:The OTHER Woman/Man]]></title><description><![CDATA[It's wrong on both sides but, some single people only hook up with married folks for the no strings action. They are both to blame but, that married person has way much more to lose.]]></description><link><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/Default.asp?display=5DFF3475-8AED-4D3D-B08C-7E18AAA0CE8B&nid=A4BB64E4-5E84-4298-AEF9-40300D320293 ]]></link><pubDate>Sat, 8 Aug 2009 06:17:20 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true"><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/Default.asp?display=5DFF3475-8AED-4D3D-B08C-7E18AAA0CE8B&nid=A4BB64E4-5E84-4298-AEF9-40300D320293 ]]></guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[RE:The OTHER Woman/Man]]></title><description><![CDATA[I agree.  Not to mention, there are quite a few of single men/women dating married men/women and not even aware of it.  What do you think is worse. . . a PHYSICAL or EMOTIONAL infidelity?]]></description><link><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/Default.asp?display=5DFF3475-8AED-4D3D-B08C-7E18AAA0CE8B&nid=A4BB64E4-5E84-4298-AEF9-40300D320293 ]]></link><pubDate>Sat, 8 Aug 2009 02:49:32 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true"><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/Default.asp?display=5DFF3475-8AED-4D3D-B08C-7E18AAA0CE8B&nid=A4BB64E4-5E84-4298-AEF9-40300D320293 ]]></guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[RE:The OTHER Woman/Man]]></title><description><![CDATA[i believe that infidelity is a mutual agreement between both participants. the single person is just as much at fault as the married person, and should not be let off the hook just because they're not legally bound to anybody. if the single person wants to hang out and do whatever with ANOTHER SINGLE PERSON, then that's cool, but just because you hook up with a married person doesn't mean it's not a big deal. and hooking up isn't just about sex anymore. in my opinion, there's two kinds of infidelity - physical infidelity ("the act") and emotional infidelity.]]></description><link><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/Default.asp?display=5DFF3475-8AED-4D3D-B08C-7E18AAA0CE8B&nid=A4BB64E4-5E84-4298-AEF9-40300D320293 ]]></link><pubDate>Fri, 7 Aug 2009 23:15:10 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true"><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/Default.asp?display=5DFF3475-8AED-4D3D-B08C-7E18AAA0CE8B&nid=A4BB64E4-5E84-4298-AEF9-40300D320293 ]]></guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[What's on your mind?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Another New Member Tip: To request a friend, go to the bottom of their profile picture and click on "Add", that will prompt you to request them as a friend.]]></description><link><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/Default.asp? ]]></link><pubDate>Fri, 7 Aug 2009 04:34:13 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true"><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/Default.asp? ]]></guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[What's on your mind?]]></title><description><![CDATA[New Member Tip: Don't forget to personalize your page.  You can choose "Add Element" to create your own blog, group, activity updates and shouts on your own page.  You can choose "Add/Edit Style" to liven up your page with color, etc.]]></description><link><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/default.asp? ]]></link><pubDate>Fri, 7 Aug 2009 02:07:29 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true"><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/default.asp? ]]></guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[What's on your mind?]]></title><description><![CDATA[New Members: To change your profile picture, run your mouse over the generic profile picture and the option to "add new picture" will give you the opportunity to put your personal picture in the profile picture.]]></description><link><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/Default.asp? ]]></link><pubDate>Fri, 7 Aug 2009 00:52:41 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true"><![CDATA[ http://marriagechroniclesconnection.com/Default.asp? ]]></guid></item></channel></rss>